I know how frustrating it can be for a man to drill a borehole for hours on end without any signs of a single drop of water. Dude, does that sound like you? Have you ever spent all your time and energy warming a woman up, spinning her only for her to sulk and slide into her clothes never to return?
Did you engage her in the coitus or she was just the dormant type who expected you to find your way through her body? Well if she was inactive in bed, you owe her nothing. Furthermore everyone should be responsible for their own orgasms (Sounds selfish huh! how else can you deal with a lady who is lazy in bed?). Here are some reasons why you couldn’t get her to Climax:
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Great sex starts with the mind. Most of the things that are not even sex related contribute to you failing to get her into climax. Everything including your empty pockets. There’s a common belief that a man’s money makes a woman horny. Well that’s absolutely true. If you could just spend dough on your woman just before coitus, then you have a way to her heart.
Then she won’t have to worry about getting laid by you, reason, you have the chums. And if the sex goes wry (or should I say right) you’ll definitely chip in to take care of her baby just in case she falls pregnant. Another insecurity she could have is about you defining the relationship. If you have a clande, and you slap it on her face, she’ll disconnect from you even as you try to turn her on, she’ll be blind to you. Bottom line, money makes a woman horny and it propels her climax.
- You ignore Her Sensitive Parts.
Understanding a woman’s anatomy is such a tiresome experience basing on the fact that every woman responds to touches differently. It takes a great deal of time to understand a woman and to understand that which makes her tick. You could try the touchy thing on her and see how she responds to every touch. If she oohs and aaahs (assuming she’s not the type of person that fakes orgasms) then you’ve mastered her erogenous zones. And if she shoves your hands at a single touch, please don’t insist your way. You just not getting it right.
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- You force her into it.
Sex should be a time to connect with your soul mate both emotionally and physically. You cannot ignore either of the two. If her emotional needs are not met, then the Lungula will be plain boring. If she’s not in the mood to get laid, you definitely don’t have to force your way.
If you force your way then that means you are only concerned about your sexual needs. And you know forced sex is rape, so that could also get you into trouble. The best sex is usually spontaneous; never planned for. It just happens out of the blues, when you both on heat, and before you know it, you all sprawling on the floor. Never mind the place, time or weather. Just keep in mind that you need to get there. Remember to serve it hot.