Some people contemplate on changing sexual partners when their sex lives deem to be boring. However, that should not be the remedy for boring sex. Sex should never feel like an uphill task (the way you feel when you are about to do your laundry). It should be an opportunity to derive maximum pleasure from your partner and vice versa. If your relationship is failing due to lack of intimacy, rubbish the idea of leaving your partner. Boring sex calls for a change of bedroom behaviour and perspective. Here are certain aspects to change in order to enjoy your bedroom affairs:
- Spice Your Fantasies.
Do you remember back then when somebody told you that sex is all in the mind? Well, turns out that’s still the same story. You need to spruce up your imaginations for you to snag the wild sex that you yearn for. Envision some mental pictures of how you would like to spice up your sex. Read erotic magazines or watch some movies that will arouse you. Be ready to experiment with your fantasies at the end of it all.
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- Give your partner ‘the view’.
You probably have been diving into the sheets for the quickies without giving your partner ‘the view’. Forget the’ lights out thingy ‘for a while and concentrate on parading your bigger bum for him. Maybe, your partner hasn’t even noticed that your butt grew an inch bigger (all thanks to his sperms). Spare a day when you all indoors and don sexy lingerie that will give him the view of your rear all day. That will arouse him all day and he won’t wait to smash you when darkness looms. Trust me, you’ll be in for the best sex in your life.
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- Sex Motivation.
Sex does not halt at knowing exactly what buttons to press so that your partner may cum .A habit is a disease you know. And the disease of boredom (maintenance sex mode) in bed can chase your partner for good. Don’t get too comfortable with smashing your partner in one particular position. Getting into the maintenance sex mode is not entirely a good thing. Rack your brains on how to spice up your source of pleasure. It could be through changing your sex position or introducing a new sex toy to the picture.