BREAKING DOWN THE BDSM CULTURE

Pain for Pleasure!

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Don’t count yourself a bedroom maniac if you haven’t tried the BDSM. I mean Bondage, Dominance, Submission and Masochism between the sheets. Normal is boring, right? That’s why you probably popped in here. Well, BDSM is a sexual act that incorporates pain and pleasure all geared up to earth shattering orgasms. Be warned though that the aftermath of BDSM, is lots of aftercare. Your body may require a whole lot of Tender love and care after the ordeal. So be careful to stipulate and set boundaries to your partner before the onset of the freaky sex. Here’s a breakdown on how to go about the sex:

  1. Bondage.

What y’all need to grace this is to tie your partner up. This works well for the submissive whose hands and or legs need to be tied up. They could be tied using ropes, clasps or a belt (to cut on the budget). The move enacts sexual pleasure as the cuffed partner derives sexual arousal from being in a helpless position. The submissive nerd achieves arousal too from being restrained from engaging in sexual activity thus paving way for the dominant partner to have their way .When it comes to matters tying up, the submissive partner can be tied using simple hand ties as well bed restraints. Chair restraints could also go a long way in enacting sexual pleasure.

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  1. Dominance and Submission.

For this sexual act, one partner that is the dominant one, is in charge of the ordeal. He /she has authority over the other partner in BDSM. The submissive partner has to follow the rituals or behaviour of the dominant partner. If you intend on being the dominant partner, you can dominate over your partner by denying your partner an orgasm. That way, you got all the power over them since you are responsible over their orgasms and yes, they look upto them. So, let their boners harden, for all you care. Let their clitoris throb till God knows when, then you could later row their boat.

  1. Sadism and Masochism. (Sadomasochism)

Sadomasochism is the giving and receiving of pleasure from acts involving the receipt or infliction of pain to derive sexual gratification. Sadists and masochist refer respectively to one who enjoys giving and receiving pain or humiliation. You can derive this from spanking, whipping, caning and flogging. If you are on a budget, a piece of rubber or a wooden spoon could do wonders matters spanking. It’s important to discuss with your partner the extent to which the impact play should go. Create boundaries and tell him to stop whenever you feel that he or she should do so. Remember, whips can tear through flesh and cause injuries. As for spanking, start slow by gently stroking your partner with your hands curved and fingers close together. You can work gradually work on increasing the intensity and on firmer motions.

 

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