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When we are young we tend to be exceptionally shy when it comes to vibing people and generally,in dating.This in return does not get you ahead of your peers and you end up being lonely. No matter what pans you try to kukachora, you are just you-shy. You also give the vibe that you are proud or just not interested but that is just how you are. Here are some tips that will guide you if you are the shy type.
Just be yourself- emphasize on your strengths.If your crush is going to become your long-time S/O, then both of you need to break out of your shells.The advantage of shy people is that they are great listeners and are good at empathizing.
Pick an engaging first date- getting drinks or doing dinner and a movie prevent a lot of natural conversation.Do more of outdoor activities where you will require to bump into each other or help each other out.It also creates a lot conversation.
Get yourself a wingman/woman- your extroverted friends will help most as they will set the pace for you and save you when need be.Talk to people your friends are/were talking to about something you/they find interesting
Treat strangers like old friends- make a picture in your head as if these strangers were people you were meeting after a long time of not seeing each other.Ask them how they have been and how school is.
Bonus tip:plan a date that puts you totally in your element.
What else can shy people do to improve their dates?
