Who is a f*ck boy? According to the Urban Dictionary, a f*ck boy is a boy who plays with girl’s feelings and doesn’t really like them and would do or say anything a girl wants to hear to get them to bed or to get something they want. I could not agree more with this statement. These are the type of boys who only want to increase their body count. Please note the excessive use of the word ‘boy.’ Because real men act accordingly.
Where do we encounter them? Instagram Snapchat Clubs House Parties “I don’t want anything serious,” that is how it starts with these boys. They will tell you and five others the same thing, three of them being your friends. Sadly, as women, we are blind to the red flags from such boys. We get attracted to the bad boy vibe they give out. Sometimes we wonder if there is something wrong with us. We wonder why we just keep attracting the wrong men. If the latter is your problem, I have a solution. The ultimate ‘f*ck boy repellant.’ Here are the ingredients:
Say NO from the word go. The end goal of these f*ck boys is to add you onto their smash list. They have little patience to keep on begging to bed you. So say NO. You can even lie that you are on a celibacy journey. This will work wonders. He will get uninterested and move on to his next prey.
Avoid flirting with them Flirting comes so naturally to these boys. They also have a special skill of getting into your head. They know exactly what you want to hear. You will find yourself falling for their lies. A month later, you will be crying and ranting on social media about how men are trash. So avoid flirting with them at all costs.
Ghost! Ghost! Ghost! Yes, sis. Ghost them. I know in your head you are thinking of how perfect he is and that he can change for you. But I have bad news. They are never going to change. Theirs is a sociopathic trait that’s hard to let go of. The sooner you get him out of your life, the better.
Use the ‘I am not into men’ card. A while ago, the ‘I have a boyfriend’ card used to work like magic. Now, these boys have no respect for whether you are in a relationship or not. This has left us no choice but to lie about our sexuality. It is not easy pulling off this lie, but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.
Never compliment. The last thing you want to do is to feed their ego. They already know of their power over women, so giving them your affirmation is just like adding salt to injury. Ignore their entire existence. This will leave them wondering why you are the only one not interested in them. When you have all the ingredients, shake it up, add some water and put it in a spray bottle. Every morning before you get out of the house, use it as perfume. That is a sure way of living a happier life. You are welcome.