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Many couples and individuals are very curious about threesomes. The reality is rarely hot as the fantasy. A threesome can go wrong in so many ways and that’s why it’s advisable to set rules before embarking on this journey. Here are some of the rules.
The first rule of the game is to play safe! You have to insist on knowing the status of all the parties involved. Ensure you get your partners tested before you engage in any sexual activities. I know at times it might look too tedious having to go through the process of testing and visiting a hospital or a VCT center. Technology has made it easy, one can purchase a testing kit in a chemist for only 500 Kenyan shillings.
When choosing a third partner for a threesome, it is always advisable not to choose a close friend or a co-worker. When you involve a stranger or a person not so close to you, then you can be rest assured your tiny little secret is safe. If you engage with someone close to your relationship, then it can always raise trust concerns. To avoid this, always know how to balance your time throughout the whole experience. Don’t seem to enjoy your third partner too much that your girlfriend starts getting jealous. In addition to that, also make sure your girlfriend is okay with you penetrating the other partner in her presence. After that, cuddle up with her and reassure her that she is the love of your life. Remember, you just banged another girl while she was watching! It’s like permitted cheating! Make her understand, it was just sex, great sex of course!
Let it sink in that threesomes often crack open the door to opportunity. Ladies usually have the tendency to try and leverage sex into love. This is why having a threesome with your close friends is not advisable. They start by bringing their sex ‘A’ game to the table. Then it proves to be a dilemma to you when it comes to how you handle both of them in bed. Make one wrong move of favoring her over your girlfriend, and it’s done! When things start getting really murky in your relationship, they use the same trick of luring you with sex in the pretense of a leaning shoulder at times of need. And long before you know it, you’re already buying her gifts and despising your mate. They are the perfect husband ‘snatchers’! So beware!
Finally, a threesome should only involve one man and two ladies. If the party involves more than one man, then that’s a gang bang and not a threesome! Great sex does not involve sharing; you don’t share your lady with another man if you want an ultimate experience. Like it or not that’s the truth!
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