Many who are in a long-term relationship will tell you that communication is an essential part of any healthy relationship. It takes two people to have a relationship and each individual has different communication styles and needs.
Women have so many weird ways of showing their affection. Blowing your phone is one of them. She will want to know where you are, what you are doing, if you have eaten just because she loves you. It shows that you are always on her mind. Sometimes, men give us the reason to keeping tabs on them. If your usual habits change, it raises a woman’s eyebrows. She will want to find out why things have changed, in most cases she will suspect cheating.
And if you are, trust me you will get caught. Other times, it is because you are the only person she has. In some relationships you find that the girl does not have friends of her own. The boyfriend’s friends become her friends. Her social life seems like it is on hold. In that situation, if she is not talking to you, then she is bored. Women thrive in attention. She will just call you just to get the attention she wants.
She will call for the most stupid reason. It is not a bad thing. You are actually lucky that she does not go looking for the attention she craves in another man. Even if men don’t admit it, sometimes they like the attention. It builds up your man ego.
It feels really nice knowing that someone is constantly having you in their mind. So do not think your girlfriend is nagging, it is one of the weird ways women show affection. On the contrary, you should enjoy every moment of it. Not many people have someone who is always thinking of their best interest. You should also reciprocate the energy given. You don’t have to call her every time, the least you can do is at least enjoy the conversation.
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