WHEN BOOBS FOR HIM TO CRY ON BECOME BOOBS FOR HIM TO SUCK ON

Beware of those females who are there to console your man!

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Most of my girls tell me that “best friends forever” (BFFs) has morphed into boyfriend or hubby snatchers forever. Well, none of my boyfriends has ever been stolen (they were/are probably too engrossed with me plus I do the  discarding myself). And I probably have stolen lots of guys ‘unknowingly ‘but I have apologised to the victims. 

Emotional unavailability from the ladies contributes largely to cheating. Women hardly attest to the fact that men are humans with feelings too, and this should be addressed.

Every girl wants a gentleman for a boyfriend or a husband. And you will only keep to yourself what you deserve. Are you that gentle lady or the savage type?  Do you realise that men are also creatures with emotions too? When last did you hold your man to your chest and let him cry his heart out? Or did you shove him away and tell him to  ‘be a man about it’ terming him a sissy?

It’s okay for a man to cry and let his feelings out. That does not make him any less of a man. If you can’t allow a man to confide in you, someone else will give him her pillowy breasts to lean on.

A man needs a safe haven where he can feel vulnerable to let out his insecurities without being judged. And this kind of explains why men are closer to their mothers. In the absence of their mothers, men would resolve to seeking attention from their female allies and colleagues who understand or ‘get them’. For the more insecure men, theirs is an escape towards alcohol and drug addiction.

Withdrawal, substance abuse and infidelity are some of the repercussions of emotional unavailability. If you notice some of these signs in your man, it’s good to confront him but don’t be pushy about it. If such issues are not addressed, they may lead to depression or resentment.

How often does your man stare in space as if trying to get answers to something? At such times hold his hands, look him in the eyes and tell  him that; “it’s gonna be fine.”( just be genuine about it) Men also need to feel assured and safe.

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In case you feel too mature to do such, be ready to lose your guy to snatchers. Snatchers can sense vulnerability  from a distance. They know when a man’s needs are not being met. They basically have a way with words and hence know what to tell your man.

If they can comfortably stroke his ego and tell him all the right words in the right way at the right time, how in the world do you think you are going to keep your dude to yourself?!

Spotting a snatcher is a topic for another day but they are all around you. They could be the people whom you share your relationship issues with whenever you feel you can’t handle your emotions. 

You might be saying that men will still cheat even if you sing poetry to them from dawn to dusk. But ask yourself this: do you want him sucking the breasts that acted as his pillow during his tough times? 

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